Therapy for people who are exhausted by self-criticism, perfectionism, shame, or the constant feeling that they should be handling life better than they are.
Local Care
In-person therapy in Schaumburg with a calm, private setting.
Whole-Person Focus
Thoughtful support for overlapping emotional, relational, and life-stage stress.
Flexible Format
Telehealth available across Illinois when that fits your life better.
Good Fit If You Need
support that helps you move forward without using shame as fuel
This page is designed for people who want support that feels thoughtful, grounded, and actually usable in daily life.
Care Style
Warm and direct
A grounded style that makes room for honesty without piling on more self-judgment.
Practical and reflective
Useful when insight helps, but has not been enough to change how you talk to yourself.
Built for pressure
Especially helpful when perfectionism and chronic self-criticism are draining daily life.
What This Work Supports
Self-compassion therapy is not about lowering standards or avoiding accountability. It is about learning how to respond to yourself with honesty, steadiness, and care rather than with punishment, contempt, or relentless pressure.
This work can be especially helpful when insight alone has not changed the way you treat yourself. Therapy focuses on understanding where the inner critic came from, how it shows up now, and how to build a healthier internal relationship that supports change rather than blocking it.
For clients near Schaumburg, sessions can happen in person. If you are elsewhere in Illinois, telehealth offers the same focused support in a more flexible format.
A common way harsh self-judgment can show up in everyday functioning, motivation, relationships, or recovery from stress.
A common way harsh self-judgment can show up in everyday functioning, motivation, relationships, or recovery from stress.
A common way harsh self-judgment can show up in everyday functioning, motivation, relationships, or recovery from stress.
A common way harsh self-judgment can show up in everyday functioning, motivation, relationships, or recovery from stress.
A common way harsh self-judgment can show up in everyday functioning, motivation, relationships, or recovery from stress.
A common way harsh self-judgment can show up in everyday functioning, motivation, relationships, or recovery from stress.
How It Works
This page reflects a central part of Dr. Djurovic's approach. Treatment may include self-compassion-based work, mindfulness-informed interventions, relational therapy, and cognitive-behavioral strategies depending on what is getting in the way of change.
The goal is not to become endlessly positive. The goal is to become more grounded, less ashamed, and more able to move through life with clarity and emotional flexibility.
Learn how self-criticism actually speaks to you and what it tries to control or prevent.
Look at past experiences, expectations, and emotional habits that made harshness feel necessary.
Practice a steadier, more supportive internal stance that makes change more realistic and sustainable.
Dr. Jelena Djurovic offers in-person care in Schaumburg, Illinois and telehealth sessions for clients across Illinois. This makes it easier to choose the format that fits your schedule, comfort, and level of support needed.
If you are looking for a licensed clinical psychologist near Schaumburg, or you prefer online therapy anywhere in Illinois, you can start by reaching out through the contact page to ask about fit, scheduling, and next steps.
A few quick answers about how this service works and who it may fit.
Self-compassion therapy focuses on changing the way you relate to yourself under stress. It can help reduce harsh self-criticism, perfectionism, shame, and the feeling that you are never doing enough.
Yes. Sessions are available in person in Schaumburg, and telehealth is available for clients throughout Illinois.
Often, yes. This approach can be useful when anxiety, burnout, body image distress, or chronic self-judgment are being made worse by an overly critical inner voice.